This is what will be happened if you leave her without informing them that you're on vacation. Learn from it guys!



p/s: trust me, I always do this to everyone...LOL!~

the time write this is around 2.00am, its so silents and loneliness environment here. Jadi bila sia nampak ni video and play it..punya laa touching..dengan lagu tu lagi (If you understand japanese language) ..boleh mengalir air mata tinguk ni.. Sia suka binatang tapi bukan pencinta..coz, bukan semua pun haiwan sia suka..hehehe..Okay, cut the crap..enjoy watching this..Anjing mimang binatang yg setia..Bagaimana dgn manusia? Tepuk dada tanya diri sendiri ..

Tips: Before that, please stop my music before you play it..Its kinda annoying to you if you let it keep playing..



p/s: Anyone watching this movie before?

I learned something to face what Im facing right now. I got the tips from a sister of St Aloysius, Sister Mary Martha. Here I shared with you guys.

1) How does one differentiate between gossip and 'sharing concern'?

You don't get to share concern by sharing private details about other people. Let's take a moment to define gossip. We'll use Webster's Dictionary because they still have nuns in there:
1 : a person who habitually reveals personal or sensational facts about others
2 a: rumor or report of an intimate nature b: a chatty talk c: the subject matter of gossip.

If I'm standing around with you and tell you about my friend who just found a wonderful new apartment after a long hunt and I want to share that good news with you, no problem.

Me: Margaret just found a wonderful new apartment! She is so happy.

You: Isn't that wonderful. I know she has been so worried about finding a new place.

We're both good to go here. It only turns south if I start revealing personal information about Margaret.

Me: Yes, well, she will be paying quite a bit more. She is such a shopaholic. I hope she doesn't end up living in her car.

Uh-oh.

Here's a rule of thumb: if you are talking about someone else and you suddenly realized they've been standing right behind you the whole time you've been talking and you find yourself combing your brain to remember exactly what you just said and whether or not you're going to have to sputter and backpeddle, you've been gossiping. (Unless all you've been talking about is the surprise party that's being planned. Then you're not a gossip, you're a blockhead.)

Why is it so bad? Because people have a right to justice and fairness, which is denied to them when people are talking about them behind their backs, even if you think it is for their own good. That's why the nuns always used to tell you to "mind your own garden".

We all have enough weeds to keep us busy.


2) If someone starts gossiping to me about another person and I just listen, am I gossiping too?

Great real. Yes.

If you weren't standing there listening there would be no gossip. Do people stand around talking to the walls about other people? No, they do not.

3) If some is gossiping to me about another person, should I walk away? Should I call the person on his/her gossip? Should I defend the gossipee?

This is a little more tricky. Unless there has been some sort of conversation about how you don't appreciate being involved in gossiping, just walking away is a bit rude. But then, so is gossiping, so it will do in a pinch.

I'm not much one for the holier than thou approach of calling a person on their gossiping, at least not in so many words, and defending the gossippee can result in more unearthing of the dark dirt.

Me: What a shopaholic that girl is! It's a wonder anyone would rent a place to her!

You: Well, she had a poor childhood and she told me once that she was denied so much as a child that she simple wasn't going to live her life pinching every penny.

Me: There is a difference between pinching pennies and reckless abandon. She wouldn't know a budget if it bit her in the face!

You're defense has made me defensive and caused me to spew even more unpleasant judgment.

I go for this approach:

Me: What a squanderer! What a wastrel!
You: It's really none of our business what she does with her money.
Me: (sputter) Well, I hope she doesn't end up at the Salvation Army trailer park.
You: I'm sure she'll be fine. How nice she found a great place.

Now you can walk away. Unless we're in the car. Then you're going to have to wait until I drop you off

I've always learned that people who gossip about others will surely at one point or another gossip about me.

Yes, they will. They especially will at the point you tell them to stop gossiping.
You: (walking away) It's none of our business. If we keep talking about this we're just gossiping.

Me: Did you hear what Janine said to me? She called me a gossipy old biddy!

How can I stay away from gossipers?

You can't, unless you live in a cave. Trust me, you wouldn' t even be safe in a convent. Just don't cave yourself.

How can I ensure not to gossip myself? Any tips or pointers would surely be appreciated.Thanks much.

Be vigilant. Be less judgmental in the first place. Don't busy yourself with the affairs of others. Mind your own garden.

My rule of thumb is don't say anything you would not want repeated in the local newspaper with your name as writer.
You never know what peoples situations are, to quote all of our mothers: "If you can't say something nice, say nothing at all." I bet you all have heard that line before.

To me, You can't avoid gossipers, but I find that they leave you alone if you don't join in. If they don't get the hint, saying something like "I think [person you've been gossiping about] is a very nice person" and its helps. otherwise, change the topic.

Aduii..rasanya sia cukup bertahan suda kana fitnah, kana kutuk, hina..Tapi sia masih jugak dapat bertahan lepas dengar my really close buddy said "Word doesn't kill you. Ignore it or you can changed the negative thinking to the positive one". I asking again "But, how?". She said "Let them spread the news and you just be calm and doing nothing about it. Others will think it is just rumors to bring you down. The advantage from that you're getting famous". Then I replied "Didn't I look like an asshole or bitch act like that?" And she told me again "Screw it, who care?"

And Yes, I do like she told me. But this few week, once again I facing the same matter. Hanya topik yg berlainan. I can't ignore it but apa yg sia takut, hal ni boleh merosakan hubungan sia dengan orang lain.I don't care people talking about me, that mean Im still hot(seems like a biatch sound huh..haha) But this time, sampai melibatkan orang lain dan menjatuhkan imejnya. Gosh! It really make me sick with this kind of gossip. Apa perasaan orang tu dan kawan²nya kalau dengar cerita² begini tersebar. Betul jugak ckp orang mulut tempayan boleh ditutup tapi mulut orang sendiri mo tau jaga. Im tired..too tired to dealing with this kind of persons. bila kena batang hidung mereka sendiri pandai pulak marah. One of my friends told me.."Ko belum lagi jadi artis, baru model suda byk gossip and scandalskana cakap". Nasib laa sia ni bukan jenis yg cepat melenting. Apa yg sia tidak puas hati ialah durang suka kaitkan sia dengan orang itu, orang ini..Im just making a friend..My job need me bergaul luas and can communicate with all level..

Siapa yg makan lada dia laa yg terasa pedas. Jangan sampai sia menjauhkan diri dari kamu disebabkan hal2 begini. kamu kawan sia jugak tapi begini kh kawan? Kawan rapat lagi tu..Terang² sia ckp sia mimang tiada kaitan dengan org2 yang kamu sebut² melainkan sebagai kawan. Sama macam sia layan kamu jugak..begitu laa sia layan kawan² yang lain..Sia sebagai kawan kamu, sia akan simpan jugak rahsia kamu even you'e no longer the person I can trust. What ever I do, I will keep it to myself..Now I really miss my best friends. Tiada orang yg dpt ganti tempat kamu..Cella, Abeth, Boy, Tom, James..Even we seldom communicate with each others but when one of us dlm kesusahan, you guys adalah orang pertama datang utk menyokong dan memberi semangat..

Moral yang sia dapat Don't simply trust people. Musuh yang paling hampir ialah orang yang paling hampir dengan diri kita. Mulai sekarang sia akan beransur-ansur mengundurkan diri and to whom it may concern, you all will be regret it of losing me as a good friend. Once I trust people I will share everything, anything I have..sia bukan orang yg suka berkira tp kamu paksa sia untuk menjauhkan diri. I give a clear crystal of trust to everyone of my friends. once you broke it, you will never get the new one..even can fix it, the look will never be the same as the 1st time I give to you.

What a pack schedule..I think I need to re-arrange my schedule supaya tidak bertembung dengan event yg lain. As early as 5.30am in the morning, I rushing to outside catering event, after that I rush again to the next appointment with client for the event next month..Di sini laa yang membuatkan sia lambat sedangkan my next appoinment is 1pm but I just managed to come there by 2pm..Lucky for me all models has been there and Jeffie Jeff helping me while Im not around...Sorry Jeff, U r the best and thank you so much..Lucky Jeff not mad at me..finish rehearsal, Jeff rush to Le Meridian for doing bridal make up there.

I will post some photo later from the Breeze Magazine 3rd Anniversary Party later. To all my team-mate Fizy, Fabian, Danu, Nathaniel, Samantha, Dewina, Elaine Ashnee and Jeff. You guys rowk and Im happy working with you guys! whatever happened and something went wrong to unexpected situation is not your all fault.We owez hv a chance to do better next time and learned from the mistake of the night. Here I wanna wish thank you for the co-operated and I had fun with you guys. Will looking to meet up and co-operate to all of you next time...will see to the next fashion show..

Ni lagi satu kes mo bunuh diri...kejadian berlaku petang 24-3-2011.. Kalau kecewa SPM pn tak kan sampai nak bunuh diri..I know how the felt of fail and upset. .. Untuk adik ni, masih ada peluang lagi kalau nda mengubah keputusan..paper July masih ada laa dik..cuba lagi jgn patah semangat..Kalau rintangan macam ni pun dah putus asa macam mana nak hadapi keadaan hidup di luar sana..lagi banyak rintangan dan dugaan hidup yg kena kita hadapi..Don't U know why U born to this world..Because we are the champion..Kita laa juara..ramai orang yg berjaya hari ini bukan laa yg dapat kepuutusan cemerlang dalam SPM tapi kerana mereka tidak putus asa, tidak mudah mengaku kalah... Bunuh diri bukan jalan penyelesaian yang terbaik..

OMG! She is too pretty to be a man... can you guys guess this person is she or he?..hahaha...

Thailand's Got Talent S1 - Audition


Although, you were shemale but your skills were very excellent!!

Oooohhh...Starting from Monday 'till this Sunday I will fucking busy with a lot of thing to do. And today, I also invited to be part of the team for fashion show at Sutera..Do you think Im gonna decline that offer? Of course not..hehehe..Now I need to organize back again my schedule. I know, This is gonna be a long week to me and exhausted at the end. Yg penting Im happy and in the mean time, I can enjoy and having fun....haha..My FB pun belum lagi ter'update' statusnya.

This is something interested to share and I totally copy this from Xiaxue. Being a woman with too much thingy think its really ain't easy huh...I guess (Im not a woman, but I respect them).. What wrong for being original..

Here it is.

If you are anonymous - you must be a fat ugly loser in real life.

If you show your identity and you look ugly - You should do plastic surgery.

If you show your identity and you already did plastic surgery - you are fake and disgusting.

If you are au-natural and pretty - you are still fake coz you put make-up, or must photoshop your pictures.

If you are pretty and don't put make up - it's because you don't know how. Also, you look boring and pale.

If you are pretty and put make up - you are superficial, insecure and shallow. Go save a whale.

If you get popular - you are a famewhore.

If you don't get popular - you are a nobody.

If you get popular and earn money from being popular - you are a sell-out.

If you get popular but don't earn money - you are stupid, and also, who you think you are, so bloody high and mighty?

If you are single and not dating - something's wrong with you.

If you are single and dating - you are a slut.

If you are attached - your boyfriend is either ugly or too good for you.

If you are married - you are a boring housewife.

If you are married with kids - why the fuck are you blogging when you should be looking after your kids? You are a shit mom.

If your partner is rich - you are a gold-digger.

If your partner is poor - you are a unrealistic romantic and if you break up with him for someone who works later on, you are a gold-digger.

If your partner is nice - Don't know what he sees in you.

If your partner is a jerk - You are a moron for dating him in the first place but you deserve no better anyway.

If you keep your life private - you have something to hide and you are a liar.

If you don't keep your life private and your life is sad - What a loser.

If you don't keep your life private and your life is fab - What a show off.

If you don't speak your mind - you are stupid, apathetic and unopinionated.

If you speak your mind - you are ignorant and talking about things you don't know about. You should shut up.

If you are fat - that's the only thing you are. That and disgusting.

If you are skinny - You must be anexoric or bulimic. Also you are making other women feel fat and thus spreading unhealthy weight ideals.

If you are of average weight - You are fat.

If you don't respond to haters - Means what they said must be true and you have nothing to say.

If you respond nicely to haters - They will just have more ammunition and hate you more.

If you respond rudely to haters - You cannot take criticism and you are a cyberbully.

In support of Earth Hour from 8.30pm-9.30pm,
Turn off all lights and Air Conditioned, chill out for Earth
Total Darkness for an hour and only the candlelight to accompany us.
Let’s SAVE EARTH and make a DIFFERENCE!


With Earth Hour around the corner, out thoughts are with the people of Japan during this incredibly challenging and sad time for their country.

So if you want to be more attractive to women then the following attraction tips are guaranteed to help you.

1. Making The Best Of What You Have

You have a natural look you’re born with and even if you don’t look like Tom Cruise or Tom Clooney you can make yourself look good.

There are a number of things you can do watch your weight and make your body the best you can. Pay attention to personal hygiene and make sure you have the following.

Good skin. A healthy complexion is a must and simple diet changes and supplements will help. Also exfoliate weekly and use moisturizer to give you a healthy glow

Teeth. All women love a great smile so make sure you have one that gets you noticed. Today, teeth bleaching can give you beautiful teeth for under $100 and is a great investment

Get a haircut! There is nothing more unappealing than a bad haircut. If in doubt ask for advice on the best style for you. Finally, if in doubt cut it short its masculine and appeals to most women

2. Style

Clothes can make you look slimmer, broader and the colours you choose need to complement your natural colouring.

One of the major attractions for women is a well turned out guy and keep in mind women adore men in suits so dont be afraid to wear them.

If you don’t know what style’s suit you, get an appointment with an image consultant. In a few hours they will get you sorted.

You will never be attractive to women if you don’t have style so make sure you do.

3. Confidence

Most women like a confident man. Make sure you walk tall and that your body language is right. A confident man smiles a lot retains eye contact and does fidget, he projects himself with confidence and you can to.

Women simply love a man who has confidence which should not be confused with arrogance. Most women simply hate boastful men who are full of themselves

4. Manners

Old fashioned maybe, but what women doesn’t like having a punctual and attentive man who will take her coat open car doors and send her flowers? Don’t believe me try it and you will see.

5. Conversation

Women need mental stimulation and this comes from conversation make sure you learn the art of conversation (there is not enough room in this article to go into it see our other articles in this series) women love a man who communicates with them.

The old saying what is on the inside is just as important as what's on the outside could not be truer.

6. Have a Feminine Side!

We have said that women like a confident man but they also like a sensitive man. One who is open with his feelings and can communicate with them.

You can even cry women don’t mind it shows you as someone who really has feelings and emotions and is not cold.

You Need to Feel Good About Yourself

Aura is something that we cant quite define but it is the overall persona of you.
You will have a great aura if you feel good about yourself – Like yourself and have the above traits and you will project an aura that attracts women.

Attraction is hard to define exactly, but it is not just physical looks.
It’s the way you project, conduct yourself and your overall aura that is important to being attractive.

The above tips will help you become more attractive, confident and allow you to derive more from life.

By Sacha Tarkovsky

I love this song by Namewee ft Karen Kong...Do you know what the messages they trying to deliver to us through this song? Let's we pray to the victims..In the mean time, we enjoy it..



p/s: I KEEP repeated this song almost hundred times...

I had a dream about how I planned my big day. It is like Oyo & Kristine Wedding's Day. Which is all my best friends and family member be there with me too. This wedding video from Oyo Boy & Kristine Hermosa make me want to marry someone tomorrow (of course not, just kidding).

This is the story I want to share with you guys. Its happened to me when I was a kid. I strongly suggested to whom a being parent already, please be consider to your kid's feeling. Everytime I saw others parents can spent their time with their family, its make me jealous.... Its not my fault for being cold sometimes. Cut the crap, here the story and I hope you guys out there know that you child isn't a toy that you can play around whenever you need them.


A woman came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find her
5-year old son waiting for her at the door.

SON: 'Mummy, may I ask you a question?'

MUM: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the woman.

SON: 'Mummy, how much do you make an hour?'

MUM: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the woman said
angrily.

SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'

MUM: 'If you must know, I make $20 an hour.'

SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.

SON: "Mummy, may I please borrow $5?"

The mother was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.'

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door..

The woman sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the woman had calmed down , and started to think:

Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $5 and he really didn't ask for money very often.The woman went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.

'Are you asleep, son?' She asked.

'No Mummy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.

'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the woman. 'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $5 you asked for.'

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you Mummy!' he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.

The woman saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.
The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his mother.

'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the mother grumbled.

'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.

'Mummy, I have $20 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow.
I would like to have dinner with you.'

The mother was crushed. She put his arms around her little son, and she begged for his
forgiveness.

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those
who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that $20 worth of your time with someone you love.

If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of hours. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.

Before you read down , I wanna warn you that you must have a sense of humor to read this joke. this is not I create, its forward by someone to my email and I sharing it with you guys.

1. There are 3 Male and 1 Female pencils in a box. The Female pencil got pregnant !! Which Male pencil is responsible? THE ONE WITHOUT THE RUBBER.

fakingfashion:

Charlette is featured on the University of the Arts Website as well as NBC NEWS for her work with the japanese exchange program that took place over spring break at UARTS.

March 15, 2011

While 15 visiting undergraduate students from Kinki University in Osaka, Japan, were busy creating collaborative art installations with University of the Arts students for the ”Mapping Experience: A Japan and UArts Exchange” exhibit, a massive earthquake and devastating tsunami struck their home country.

Local Philadelphia affiliate NBC-10 News was on hand at the March 14 opening reception to talk to the students about the disaster:

Originally intended to explore language, ident

ity and cultural hybridity, “Mapping Experience” turned into a vital source of support for the student artists and three faculty members, who are all from an area of Japan not directly affected by the catastrophe.

Local NPR affiliate WHYY also featured the visiting Japanese students during its morning news program and on its NewsWorks portal:

“In Time of Trouble, Japanese Students Create Art, Forge Bonds” »

“Mapping Experience: A Japan and UArts Exchange” will be on display through March 27 in Gallery One and the Sculpture Gallery in Hamilton Hall and in Gallery 817 in Anderson Hall.

This art installation is a collaboration of Japanese and American students at the University of the Arts

Less than a week after a group of Japanese art students arrived at the University of the Arts for an exchange program, their home country was devastated by one of the worst natural disasters in its history

SENARAI lAGU LELAKI

You say that I’m messing with your head

All ’cause I was making out with your friend
Love hurts whether it’s right or wrong
I can’t stop ’cause I’m having too much fun

You’re on your knees
Begging, “Please
Stay with me”
But honestly
I just need to be
A little crazy

All my life I’ve been good,
But now…
I’m thinking, “what the hell?”
All I want is to mess around
And I don’t really care about…

If you love me
If you hate me
You can save me
Baby, baby
All my life I’ve been good
But now…
What the hell?

What?
What?
What?
What the hell?

So what if I go out on a million dates
You never call or listen to me anyway
I’d rather rage than sit around and wait all day
Don’t get me wrong, I just need some time to play

You’re on your knees
Begging, “Please
Stay with me”
But honestly
I just need to be
A little crazy

All my life I’ve been good,
But now…
I’m thinking, “What the hell?”
All I want is to mess around
And I don’t really care about…

If you love me
If you hate me
You can save me
Baby, baby
All my life I’ve been good
But now…
What the hell?

La, la, la, la, la, la
Whoa, whoa
La, la, la, la, la, la
Whoa, whoa

You say that I’m messing with your head
Boy, I like messing in your bed
Yeah, I am messing with your head when
I’m messing with you in bed

All my life I’ve been good,
But now…
I’m thinking, “What the hell?”
All I want is to mess around
And I don’t really care about
All my life I’ve been good,
But now…
I’m thinking, “What the hell?”
All I want is to mess around
And I don’t really care about…

(If you love me)

If you love me
If you hate me
You can save me
Baby, baby
(If you love me)
All my life I’ve been good
But now…
What the hell?

La, la, la, la, la, la
La, la, la, la, la, la